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Sunday, May 2, 2021

I'm finished. Goodbye.

 

It is with a sad, and very tired heart we are closing the Cockeyed Homestead blog and partnership. I'm grateful to all for following along with us on this journey. We've shared our successes and failures with y'all. I've also learned a few things along the way from y'all. This will be my last post here.

I'm moving back to coastal Georgia into a senior, independent living community. I'm moving by my #3 daughter and her family. They'll only be 5 minutes away. Over the past year and a half, my health has taken significant downturns. Between a bad heart, thyroid issues, surgeries, and a new diagnosis of moderate Hashimoto's disease. I am no longer feel safe and confident as I once did in my abilities to live this lifestyle. 

Mel will be staying on until the property can be sold. Then, she's off to greener pastures back in Florida. The winters here though not as bad as up north aggravate her seasonal depression which is worse now. The affects of last year's COVID flu continues to impact her heart and stamina.

We are still friend despite our differences. I wish her future success in wherever life takes her. Homesteading is a younger, able bodied person's lifestyle. We had the deck stacked against us from the start but we both had to try. All the hard work and money we've thrown into this has not been wasted. It's been an adventure worth doing. You don't know what you are capable of if you don't try. Well, we tried and it honesty beat our butts. We are cutting our losses.

Will I totally give up my homesteading ways, not hardly. I'll still be grinding flour to make my daily bread, making friends with community farmers to get the freshest, humanely raised, no chemical added vegetables and meats available to preserve to supply my needs whenever possible. I may even u-pick some. 

As far as gardening goes, the administrator and I have been talking. We'll be setting up a small high tunnel and elevated, raised beds to grow some herbs and vegetables. So, I can still get as dirty as I want and so can other residents of both the independent living, assisted living and memory care residents. They started two weeks ago in the memory care enclosed courtyard by planting a few dwarf fruit trees and berry vines. I'll also be digging up some of our perennial herbs to carry with me in pots.

Once a homesteader, chef, and gardener, always a homesteader, chef, and gardener. I think I've even convinced my daughter to keeping a few hens and quail. Wohoo!

Y'all have a blessed life!!
Cockeyed Jo 

16 comments:

  1. Jo, life-changing decisions are never easy to make, but I think you made the right one. Still, you will be missed here in blogland. I wish you and Mel the very best as you begin new adventures in your lives.

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  2. If you blog again, after the move, please let us know.

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    1. Kristina, I'll still blog my Sunday Stroke Survival blog. But on homesteading, I probably won't.

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  3. I give so much credit for making your decision and having the gumption to initiate this change. Change is never, ever easy even when it's a good one. You've given all of us out here so much to look up to in all that you've had the courage to do in your sometimes very difficult life. You have nothing to regret because you've lived to the fullest rather than sitting back and complaining (which I've never heard you do). And I know you are going to have many satisfying adventures ahead. This is just a new beginning for you. You will be missed. Sending warm hugs and the best wishes for your future.

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    1. Mama, I've always lived my life to the fullest. It seemed wrong to do it any other way. Thank you.

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  4. Hi Jo! Thanks for letting me know of your plans. I hope everything goes well for you. It's a shame you have to give up this lifestyle, but it's sure understandable with your limitations. I've learned a lot from you! Take care and be well! xx

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    1. Rain, you have my email. Ask away. What's the sense of learning all I have learned if I can't share it to teach the next generation.

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  5. Well Pooh! Let me re-phrase that - as a new reader, I'm sorry there will be no updates here. I'm sorry you are leaving the homestead due to health things, but know how it is trying do things the body says No. Way. I have a hip that's decided it doesn't like my standing too long, let alone bending over weeding and such. Much foul language has been exchanged between us especially when I go ahead and do the work anyway :-)

    Will the past posts be left available for future reading?

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    1. Just Gail, welcome and I'm sorry. I've also had a hip and knee replacements. I've also had several back surgeries so I understand your issues. Everything will be left til blogspot deletes it. I have noticed that some of my blogs are missing. Why I don't know. Enjoy.

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  6. This is so sad. I'm sorry to hear things are ending but it sounds like it's for the best. Does Mel have an email she gives out? I'd be interested in purchasing some of your rabbits if you/she are downsizing. I like nearby in upstate SC.

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    1. My name is Erica but it didn't include that for some reason.

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    2. EricA, We haven't raised Angoras in two years.

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  7. Sorry to read this. Thank you for the wonderful content. Take good care of yourselves.

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  8. Sorry to hear about your health. I am also a widow and suffer from thyroid disease. People don't understand the crushing exhaustion we live with every day. Take care of yourselves, I will continue to pray for you as you move into this next chapter of your lives. Know that you have accomplished more than most people today even attempt, don't let anyone take that from you. You both are AWESOME!!!

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